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You know how sometimes in your email you get those that talk about what one misses about the good old days. Well, here are a few things I don't miss about the so-called "good old days".

I don't miss having to go down that little path to that little building at the end of that little path every time nature called.

I don't miss bringing in buckets of water from the pump outside and setting them on a shelf on the back porch; then having to break the ice the next morning to wash your face and hands.

I don't miss having to stand by the heater in the kitchen to take a sponge bath, because that was the only room in the house that was warm.

I don't miss trying to sleep at night in the summer with the windows open hoping to feel a little breeze now and then.

I don't miss having to walk every where I went, because we didn't have any other way of getting there, although I should probably be walking more now.

I don't miss having to get up at 3 or 4 AM to take cured tobacco out of the barn so we could hang green tobacco in there again after we worked all  day.  

 

Now, I will tell you what I do miss about the good old days.

I miss movies that I could pay my way in plus buy popcorn and a drink with one quarter.

I miss being able to sit and watch a movie in a theater without feeling embarrassed because of the language, nudity and sex scenes, which is why I go to so few movies now.  

I miss being able to go to bed without wondering if I would wake to someone in my house trying to harm me.

I miss when all the kids in our neighborhood gathered in the late afternoon to play softball in the middle of the street, and how we would all run home when we heard our Mothers calling or Daddies whistling.

I miss my Grandmother giving me a dime to go to the little store around the corner to buy her a Pepsi and a popsicle for me.

These are just a few things I think about sometimes. I know I will think of some others, but that is enough. I don't really want to go back, but life was much simpler in the "good old days". Then again, we had to work much harder for what we had. Hmmm, maybe that was why we appreciated things so much!? 

 

 

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michellerb

Euris

There is one thing I truly despise and it is being cold. Your description of taking a sponge bath standing in front of a heater was enough to make me shiver!

In our neighborhood there is a street that runs down beside our house. It seems to be the street that has all of the neighborhood kids on it. My son will go down there on a weekend morning. They build forts, play football, look for arrowheads along the creekbed. He will come home at lunch to check in and to grab a bite to eat. Our rule is when the streetlights come on, time to come in.

He comes home filthy and covered with dirt, but he sleeps well at night! It reminds me of when I was a young child. We would stay outside all day long playing. Some things remain the same.

Michelle

michellerb

I thought of another one.........

For fun, my aunt would lower goodies and treats to us from my grandmother's windows in her house.

She had a three story house, and there was also a basement, but my aunt would take popsicles and snacks. She would head up to third floor and lower them down to us via string out the window.

Every so often a snickers or a hershey bar would get stuck on one of the roofs on its way down. We'd then spend the next week or so either watching it melt or freeze depending upon the season!

Here was another all time favorite of ours...back in the old days before video games and satellite tv.....we'd go to the park and the first person that could cross the creek, via the rocks, without getting wet would win a sundae from the local ice cream parlor.

We knew the trick, we'd all get something, but the winner got the sundae. I do that with my kids now. We head out to Blue Jay Point Park and the first one to the top of one of the VERY little hills on one of the trails will get the first choice of snacks I buy at the store on the way home. OR I will tell them, the one that makes it the whole hike without one single complaint gets something special. After a six or eight mile hike, they usually both get something good. The nature distracts them!

Michelle.......Excuse me for butting in on your blog. I'm sure I will think up more things!

Michelle

That's OK, Michelle, I like to hear about how others remember the past. I know the old saying about as you get older and dwelling in the past, but sometimes it is pleasant to recall. Although, some things are better left in the past. I have so many wonderful memories that I wish everyone could have the same of their own. Unfortunately, it isn't like that for all. I hope people who are young adults now will work towards helping to make their children's memories pleasant.